tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14391563.post8360619585203477917..comments2023-10-25T07:20:23.858-07:00Comments on Vicarious Therapy: Fear and DesireAquahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16230285017033299419noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14391563.post-43749178087588336822009-02-02T05:40:00.000-08:002009-02-02T05:40:00.000-08:00I can relate to a lot of your feelings. It sounds...I can relate to a lot of your feelings. It sounds like you feel like you are missing out on a lot of things you yearn for, and most of that has to do with your marriage.<BR/><BR/>I don't mean to pry, and you can delete this, but have you and your husband tried counseling together? Does he have counseling alone? What does Dr. X think you should do about your marriage - because if your spouse won't change the only options are to keep the status quo, which doesn't sound like it's healthy for you, or to leave.<BR/><BR/>This is a such a hard situation, but you are still a young woman (although I know the feeling of being old, I'm just a few years older than you and feel there is no way I'd ever be able to find someone else if anything happened to my husband.)Harriethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10151061142781327531noreply@blogger.com